Guru Les

Guru les private, itu kerjaan gue sekarang.
Waktu dulu gue SD, waktu guru les dateng rasanya males gak ada obat.
Sama kayak murid gue sekarang, dia ngeliat gue kayak malapetaka kali..
tiap kali gue dateng "Yah.. miss nya udah dateng"
Gue tau dia gak benci gue, karena gue juga gak mau dia benci.
Dia bakal tambah benci sama gue kalo gue bawel bujuk2in dia dengan mulut manis palsu gue.
Jadi tiap kali gue dateng, gue cuma duduk dan tunggu 10-15 menit untuk susternya teriak2 ke dia buat suruh les.
Dengan begitu, gue bisa mengurangi kadar kemalasan dia buat ketemu sama gue *evilsmart*
Walaupun mungkin memang kelihatannya gue guru yang masa bodo.
Tapi memang benar adanya, gue gak suka maksa-maksa anak buat belajar.
Kalo lagi gak mood gak bisa bagus juga kan hasilnya?
Pada intinya adalah gue selalu berusaha buat membuat si anak bisa mengerti apa yang gue ajarkan sesuai dengan kebutuhan dia (needs analysis).

Tapi lain halnya dengan murid gue yang dua ini..
They're brother and sister, both are clever and supercute! haha
And this little 6 or 7 year old girl really took my heart.
She's so fashionate!! *obsesi jadi designer*
Dan waktu rapot-an, nilainya dia bagus, gue tanya dia mau hadiah apa
Dia jawab "Lip Gloss" haha
dia juga cerita bagaimana pengennya dia pake nail polish warna- warni yang sering gue pake
sampe pernah dia spidol-in kukunya.
I treat her like my own niece, I dried her hair and made her hair done.
Hari ini gue bersihin telinganya, just the way my mom did it to me when I was a kid.

I really have such a nice and great experience and it's like an exerices for my "short temper disorder". But then again, I don't know why I am so lazy to go teaching.

Helping people without losing any cents! + BONUS

I've just got my blood donor yesterday. That's the 1st time, and I was kind of freaked out that I'll got unconcious or black out.
When I saw the needle, I was kind of proud of my self that I've done it, and it's not really that hurt.
But, I got preety bad bruise and it got worse until today.

The day one


The day two



The point is : It is good to helping people, even we don't have to spend some pennies to help them.

And the bad bruise is just the looks, it's not really that hurt. Hahaha
I think I wanna do it every year or every 4months.

Bonus :
Hari itu gue lagi ngantri bus TJ almost one hour, dan rasanya betul- betul ingin pingsan.
Abis donor dan belum makan, banyak orang, kurang oksigen. Lengkaplah semua paketnya!
Tapi di saat setengah mati itu, ada hal yang bikin gue tersenyum geli,
dan itu gambaran yang bakal gue kangenin kalo udah gak di Jakarta ato di Indo sekalipun.
Kalian tau itu apa?
Orang2 yang ngantri gak karuan, waktu bus dateng, mereka semua dorong2an.
Celotehannya yang bikin geli
"Woii yang didepan masuk dong!"
"Ihh! jangan dorong2 dong!"
Liat ekspresi wajah mereka.
Nanti kalo kalian naik Transjakarta, jam pulang kerja ( 6 to 7.30 p.m)
sempatkan sedikit liat antrian yang ke PGC,
dan anda akan dapatkan tontonan gratis! Selamat menikmati!

ACICIS-ed

Well.. after almost a month I never checked on my own blog, I feel like wanna throw something on it.
Yeapp, throw my wonderful experience, with awesome people from all over the world!

This program is held by ACICIS and workin together with Atma Jaya - My uni.
I was the Liaison Officer for Matthew, Taylor and Amanda.

The 1st day, I walking to find any boarding house available for them, and it's like the 2nd longest distance i've been walking in my life.
1st record is when I had my Live-In in Jogja, and I have to walk so so so far to a meeting point with my friends.
The thing that made me walking is their "Close" distance is my "Far" distance. And I got sick afterwards.

It's lucky to have Matt and Tay in my group, they're so easy going, and not fussy. Thanks a lot for that! I love you guys!
this is Matt


and this is Taylor


Moving on, We also had a karaoke. Which is great! and I was going to the bar after we went to the karaoke. The funny part is, me and Robby taught James and Andy about the slang words which is Lebay!
Ex : Ganteng beeeetttt!!! (James did it with his Best!!!)

I also take Eduardo and Jassmyn to the china town and the other tourism places.
When I was stop over at Edu's place with Jass, they sang the worst ads I've ever heard in my life. Sossiss, enak lohh!! dari So Good Food! (Jassmyn really good at hurting my ears with saying this line)
They also really love to sing the ads, omg!
Even if it's really annoying, this part that I won't forget. Bule gila!



both in the right are Jass and Edu




And these are the funky L.O

It's such a nice and great time I've spent with them, not only the participants but the LO, as well. I love you all!XOXOXOXO

And we're gonna have our farewell party on 10 Feb'12.
Let's see what's goin on next!

C ya!

The Sicks(6) Souls

I wish I could separated my body and brain into 6 parts.

First one for my academic life, to study, read some good books, which actually i really have to do that.
Second one for my job, I need to concentrate on my job and my 3 students
Third, for the organization that I've join. And I know that I have to be responsible with what i've chose
Forth, for having a boyfriend. For now, having a boyfriend is such an impossible thing to happen. Almost every boy, need more time for me to be with him, care about him, and it such a weight on my back. I need a boyfriend that can support me with not much effort, and deal with my insensitive.
Fifth, for travelling.
Sixth, for be with my self, without anyone's calls, messages, or anything. I just need to be with my self,tv set and dvd.

I don't care if people judge me, so irresponsible or ego or insensitive.
I do much care to lots of people, spent my time, but they're not appriciate it.

I'm sorry for this.
But if, one day, you can't call me, text me, or see me, may be I am in my Fifth or Sixth soul.

Because I am busy and I know it.
Somehow, I need to be disappeared from those crazy things around my head.

Si Kokom dan teman teman butuh bantuan kalian!!

Did u ever feel like don't even wanna know about what will happen tommorow, what interesting part of tommorow, and what are you going to do tommorow? and you don't feel like wanna seize the day.
I was.
I was in the trouble, that it is hard for to me explain, even to my bestfriends.
And I just told the obvious part.

Di hari-hari yang melelahkan buat gue saat itu, gue akhirnya ikut temen2 kampus buat bakti sosial dia pedongkelan buat ngajar anak2 gak mampu.
Yang gue inget banget namanya Kokom.
Anak perempuan yang tadinya gue pikir laki-laki karena rambutnya yang pendek dan rada petal haha .
Dia baik, gak nakal, and i love her.

Besoknya kita ke taman bacaan di Bekasi, tadinya males banget karena pagi. But then, I really think that i have to go. I would be frustrated kalo di rumah doang.
Sampe sana, kita ngadain lomba untuk merayakan hari Sumpah pemuda.
Disana gue ketemu Ibu dan Bapak- bapak yang merelakan banyak waktunya buat ngurus taman bacaan ini.
Mereka cerita, kalo anak2 ditaman bacaan ini dari kampung yang masih ada sebagian malu untuk masuk ke dalam taman bacaan karena bajunya sobek, kotor. Dan mereka yang di taman bacaan punya semangat luar biasa buat baca buku, main puzzle, mereka bahkan gak punya boneka, tas, pen.
Kadang kalo di bandingin anak murid gue yang mainan sampe kebuang2, di suruh baca susahnya seampun-ampun. Beda banget.
Tapi yang bikin gue surprise mereka selalu semangat! Bahkan sering bapak - ibu taman bacaan ini nemuin anak sendirian di taman bacaan sedangkan yang lain pulang makan, dia gak pulang karena udah 2 hari di rumahnya gak ada makanan.
Mereka yang bikin gue ngerasa selalu bersyukur dan mendorong gue untuk do something for them.

Karena kalo hanya bapak dan ibu tadi, juga temen2 gue tanpa orang lain, seperti kita berjuang 1 melawan 100 orang. And you know that it's impossible.

Karena itu lewat blog ini juga gue menyampainkan ke kalian, mereka anak2 kampung itu masih punya mimpi yang kita bisa bantu buat menjadikan itu nyata.

Kalian di luar negeri, jangan lupa pulang because I believe that Indonesia have really big potential, that have been already wasted and taken by other people. Kalian bisa bantu mereka, buat menyediakan lapangan kerja buat mereka, waktu mereka besar nanti.

Thanks for read my blog =)

Love,
Nedra.




P.S : kalo kalian punya buku anak2, boneka, tas, pensil ato apa aja yang sudah mau dibuang, bisa hubungin gue buat menyampaikan ke mereka.
Bantuan kecil kalian berarti banget buat mereka=)

About Cameron's Quit From Glee Project

It's such a waste of meat for some people
It's a totally wrong decision, for them
Glee is a really booming tv shows that most of teenagers, even adults like it, I think
I see what the judges think that Cam is a such nice and unique figure
He's good christian, good in morality, good looking and also angelic voice.

At first I'm not really intersted in watching TV show or something like that.
But when I accidently watch Glee Project, it was WOW. And I start to addicted to it.
Basically I like Sam the most. But then when I watched the 7th episode(if I'm not mistaken) I have the one that I really adore beyond all the Youth Stars.
Yes, He is Cameron Mitchell.
Why I like him??
He's a good christian. He still believe in the same God that I believe.
I mean, maybe it's true that most of Non Believers choose to believe in nothing because in not logic. But God is not all about logic. I know to stand beside most of non believers is hard.
Because he is a good christian, he has a strong morality that has been cast away in everybody's mind. He doesn't even dare to kiss any girl in the show, it's like cheating on his girl.He felt guilty when he accidently did it.
It's not real, but still he choose to not do it. And that's why he's quit.

Well,maybe this is stupid just leave the golden chance that everybody wanted and would die for it.
But, He's not. His eyes is not blinded with fame, richness and everything.
He maybe not a star anymore. But, he's the guy that I really adore.
And he's just like a star for me. He's amazing

Being ALONE in the middle of the CROWD

Terinspirasi oleh Blog adik saya : Jasie(jasieblast.blogspot.com)

Dia menulis tentang bagaimana rasa kesepian dan beban seorang diri dari pedagang ketoprak yang setia berada di dekat rumah saya.

Ketika saya membacanya, saya tentu tidak mampu memposisikan diri saya sebagai seorang pedagang ketoprak yang harus "sendirian". Semuanya sendirian.

Jujur, saya paling iba melihat orang makan sendirian, terutama anak kecil dan orang tua.

Dan pada suatu malam, ketika saya pulang kerja, sudah jam delapan hampir setengah sembilan malam waktu itu. Tapi halte Tr*nsjakarta saat itu masih banyak orang.

Ketika bus saya sudah datang, saya duduk persis bersebrangan dengan seorang kakek yang usianya saya yakin lebih tua dari nenek saya.

Dia sepertinya pulang sehabis belanja sayuran, saya ingat sayur caisim hijau yang dibawanya.

Saya sungguh tidak sampai hati melihat matanya.
Saya teringat dengan kakek saya yang sudah tidur tenang.

Tapi saya juga tidak bisa melakukan apa-apa.

Orang yang duduk disebelahnya sepertinya berfikir yang sama dengan saya.

Dimana anaknya? apa dia tidak menikah?

Suatu hari nanti saya berharap orang tua saya tidak akan naik Tr*nsjakarta sendirian malam-malam membawa caisim hijau, tapi pasti selalu ada dari kami bertiga yang bisa mengantarnya.

Dan begitu juga yang saya harapkan ketika saya tua nanti.

Karena saya tidak mau menjadi objek tulisan orang lain karena keibaannya.